 Who is your lover? (Jorge Bucay - Psychologist) "Lover is "someone" or "something" that makes us "dating life" and away from the sad fate of "hanging"." Many people have a lover and others would like to have one. There are also those that have not, and those who had and lost. Generally, these last are coming to my office to tell me that they are sad or have typical symptoms of insomnia, apathy, pessimism, crying, pain, etc.. They tell me that their lives went so dull and perspectives, working just to survive and do not know how to occupy their free time. Finally, there are several ways they find to say they are simply losing hope. Before I tell all this, they had already visited other clinics, where they received the condolences of a firm diagnosis, "Depression," but the inevitable moment of prescription antidepressant. So after listening to them carefully, I tell you, no need of any antidepressant, tell them they need a lover! It is amazing to see the expression of their eyes when they receive my advice. There are those who think: "How is it that a professional would dare suggest such a thing?"! There are also those who, shocked and outraged, say goodbye and never come back. For those, however, who decide to stay and not flee in horror, I explain the following: "Lover is what we love, is what takes care of our thinking before we take the sleep, is also what sometimes prevents us sleeping. Our "Lover" is what keeps us distracted from what happens around us. It shows us what the meaning of life and motivation. Sometimes we find our "lover" in our partner. We can also find it in scientific research or literature, music, politics, sports, work, the need to transcend spiritually, in good food, study or pleasure obsessive hobby ... Anyway, is "someone" or "something" that makes us "dating life" and away from the sad fate of getting by. And what is "hanging"? Get by being afraid to live. It's watching how others live, is being dominated by the pressure, wander doctors, take medication multicolored, away from what it is gratifying to observe disappointed every new wrinkle that the mirror shows, is getting bored with the heat or cold, with humidity in the sun or the rain. Jump to postpone taking the opportunity to enjoy today, pretending to be content with the uncertain and fragile illusion that we might do something tomorrow. Please do not settle for "getting by" ... Be a lover and a protagonist of your life! Believe: The tragedy is not death, after death has a good memory and never forgot anyone. The tragedy of life is to give up ... So without further ado, look for something to love ... Psychology after studying a lot about the subject, he discovered something transcendental: "To be happy, active and feeling young and happy, we must date the Life" =============== with great affection, Dora Saunier |
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